Male bosses have been warned to beware of the ‘office piranhas’, women who target senior colleagues for financial gain. This was a message from Diane Benussi who runs a law firm handling high-value divorce cases. She said piranhas want a high-earning, high-virility man to marry.
“Piranhas hang on for the kill and rip any man to shreds”, she added.
To me it seems this is another breed of business minded women. They are never in it for the love, never in it for the marriage. They just identify the opportunity to make money and they make the most of it.
This reminds me of another breed of women, the one who goes after married man. She does not mind having an affair with a married man, she is after breaking other peoples relationships. Tondy says the women is possessed by the spirit Jezbel, she wrote a very interesting article, you can read her post here.
This seems to be a trend most common with young women. They are very outgoing and know how to get what they want.
But why is it that man themselves don’t learn from other’s mistakes? Even with all these high profile divorce cases being reported, some man still behave like teenagers chasing after women.
Even the senior company executive (sugar daddies), you will find him falling for these young girls. Young enough to be their children. Why blame these women, if there is an opportunity to make money, who will let it pass them? They are not stealing from anyone.
Men need to grow up, is it that difficulty to love the one women you have at home? These divorces cause a lot of suffering in families and affects the behavior of some of the kids of today.
The decisions that we make will shape our destiny, men are willing participants in these relationships. Why should we blame the women? Should we not blame these man as well?
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You are correct in saying that ‘grown men’ who go after young women need to grow up. The blame cannot be put entirely on the women, it takes two to tango. But with such a culture ingrained in society it will take a long time (I don’t see it happening in my lifetime) before this practise slows down or even stops.
Such is life in Zimbabwe at the moment and relationships built under these circumstances are almost certainly bound to fail. If you are not going to marry for love, you should not marry at all.
LOL, thanks for the mention there. I do believe we should also blame the men, but really this “small house” thing has become a phenomenon – it’s now normal. I think it’s greed at its best – at the end of the day you’re both using each other, one for money and the other, props for getting a woman half your age. I don’t see anything changing soon and it annoys the hell out of me. Good post